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after been years with him,
i found out that how to maintain a relationship is far more difficult that decide to start a relationship.

as passion will decrease as time goes, how to be passion, avoid unnecessary quarrels are essential.

yesterday morning i "shouted" at him because he didn't wash his glass,
i do not think i was shouting at him (in fact i was just talking slightly louder).
but he thought i shouted to him.
thus he also get irritated.

on my way went to work, once again we argued again.
he wanted me to put on safety belt, but i don't want because the destination is very near.

now, we start our quarrel just because of small matter.
after the honeymoon period,that's what will happen.

if a couple cannot go through those obstacles, then finally it leads to break up.
how to maintain a good and sweet relationship is hard.
before i'm dating with him,
i would think if a couple cannot be together anymore then the best way is to break up.

but after I'm in the shoes, i think at least both parties should try their best to mend the breach between them.

he always says i'm not listening to what he said,
he wants his girl friend listen to him always.
i admit i have fault too, but sometimes i hope he also will not forget that i always have my principles.

i'm his girl friend now, but it doesn't mean i have to turn my personalities to suit all his needs.
thinking about such problems make me frustrated...